23 September 2015 ~ 3 Comments

5 Things To Do Everyday to be an Awesome Husband

food-couple-sweet-marriedI try to be the best husband I can to my wife. Believe it or not, this isn’t very complicated. Sometimes it isn’t easy, but it’s not rocket science. Some men think that being an awesome husband requires wooing their wife with epic romance, like something you might read in a Nicholas Sparks or Danielle Steele novel.[tweetthis display_mode=”button_link”]Some men think that being an awesome husband requires wooing their wife with epic romance.[/tweetthis]

Hey, surprising your wife with a romantic date ending in her finding a trail of rose petals leading to bed might be a nice gesture, but true romance is the little things you day to make your wife feel loved and appreciated.[tweetthis display_mode=”button_link”]true romance is the little things you day to make your wife feel loved and appreciated.[/tweetthis]. The big sweeping gestures are soon fade to nothing more than a fond memory.

To be an awesome husband, focus on those small things you can do each day.[tweetthis display_mode=”button_link”]To be an awesome husband, focus on those small things you can do each day.[/tweetthis]. Here’s 5 ideas to get you started:

  1. Tell her you love her: Love is at the center of every successful marriage. It should be no surprise that the first, and probably most important, thing you can do each day is to reaffirm that love. And don’t stop at just saying “I love you”. Show it. Send a text in the middle of the day to let her know you’re thinking of her. Leave a note for her to find. Give her a small gift. Show affection with physical touch or flirty banter.[tweetthis display_mode=”button_link”]Show affection with physical touch or flirty banter[/tweetthis].
  2. Pay attention to her: I know how tempting it can be to come home from work and check out for a few hours in front of the TV or computer. Pretty soon, the evening is over and you’re off to bed without spending quality time with your wife. Spend some time each day to get rid of your distractions and be fully present with her. [tweetthis display_mode=”button_link”]Spend some time each day to get rid of your distractions and be fully present with your wife.[/tweetthis].
  3. Be intentional: Your marriage is like a garden. It will thrive if you tend to it. [tweetthis display_mode=”button_link”]Your marriage is like a garden. It will thrive if you tend to it.[/tweetthis]. But it’s so easy to forget to be intentional. But if you forget to water it for too long, it will start to whither. What can you do today to grow closer to your wife? Go and do it. For example, I make it a point to try to take my wife on a date every two weeks. Or we will do a devotional together.
  4. Be generous: I am convinced that the biggest marriage killer is selfishness[tweetthis display_mode=”button_link”]I am convinced that the biggest marriage killer is selfishness[/tweetthis]. There have been many times when I let my selfish desires or pride get in the way of generously serving and loving my wife. But what I’ve found is that the more I give, the more I get.
  5. Be connected: It’s tempting to think that marriage is just about you and your spouse. But the reality is that it takes a community to make a great marriage [tweetthis display_mode=”button_link”]the reality is that it takes a community to make a great marriage.[/tweetthis]. Look for other couples that can mentor, encourage, and support you when things get tough. Avoid people who are cynical about marriage and will “encourage” you to solve your problems by splitting up or giving up.
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3 Responses to “5 Things To Do Everyday to be an Awesome Husband”

  1. Jerry Stumpf 24 September 2015 at 5:42 am Permalink

    Good thoughts Daniel! Marriage is made up of small actions either positive or negative so why not choose the positive!

    I like your emphasis on doing the little things for your spouse. A good marriage is certainly “other centered”.

    Keep up the good work!
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  2. Robert 11 March 2016 at 12:49 pm Permalink

    Good advice! This is an important topic that every man must mull over.
    I’d also try cooking for her, not everyday though!
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